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What's the opposite of a phallic symbol?
Swords and guns, skyscrapers and obelisks, cars and cigars. Poles. Freudian wisdom suggests that we are surrounded by phallic symbols—especially things that men love to buy and show off. "Silly...
4 Male Boudoir Photographers Who Understand Sensuality and Intimacy
Men get a bad rap and I don't like it. Just the other day one friend shared a horrible message she received from one man via an online dating site...
How to Buy Lingerie She'll Absolutely Love If You're a Man
Red Dreams by Kurt Vandeweerdt on 500px Lingerie is inherently decedent. No one NEEDS lingerie. No one NEEDS to wrap themselves in silk or bind their body in straps, but...
Confessions of Sirens: What You Need to Know About Fetish and Kink
You never really know who's KINKY until something triggers their inner siren to come out and play. I find that a lot of people are not as forthcoming in everyday...
We Spy Bodybinds
Oxygen network is airing a new show, Living Different, featuring androgynous model Rain Dove. We saw our lookbook campaign crew, Matt Licari and Britt White in the sneak peek vid (and some Bodybinds)! Watch...
5 Taboo & Subversive Resources for NY BDSM, Fetish & Kink
"I don't need tricks." In a private group discussion regarding the benefits and pleasures of coconut oil during masturbation, one woman repeatedly exclaimed that 1), she did not masturbate, 2),...
Celebrate You this New Years - Body Love Affirmation
There are a million resolutions you can make this New Years, but the most important one is to love your sexy self every day of the year! Grab your most...
Appreciate the Genius of You With 3 Celebration Dares
Photo Credit: Tresemes37 Gratitude may be the simplest tool we possess to increase abundance in our lives. The field of Positive Psychology grew out of the ‘gratitude visit’ that Martin...
4 Unique Ways to View Pole Dance - The Elements
There are so many ways to pole dance: sexy or sporty, tricky or flowy, theatrical or simple. Pole dancers, as well, come in all shapes, sizes, genders, and attitudes. We...
The Importance of Sexy: Why You Need It And Why It's So Hard To Get It In The First Place
Untense by Billy Nguyen on 500px In the comfort of a pole studio, with it's dim lights and body positive mantras, it shouldn't be hard for women and men to...
Shameless Pleasure for Wholistic Living
"I'm not alone." That's how I felt when I first read Pamela Madsen's book, "Shameless: How I Ditched the Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure...and Somehow Got Home in Time To...
Zebras. Pigeons. Football. 3 Tips on Finding Inspiration
Editors Note: Today is Milan's birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MILAN!!!! We're so grateful for you, your life and everything you are. I love creativity because there is no right or...