You never really know who's KINKY until something triggers their inner siren to come out and play. I find that a lot of people are not as forthcoming in everyday conversations when the topic of Sex, Kink or Fetish arise. Perhaps after a few drinks. Maybe at an intimate dinner between close friends. Sometimes, late at night when you're in the bed with your lover. Seldom though, do you find daring women willing to put their kink on the line in a public forum. That isn't the case for Remy Fontaine. She's a model and make up artist that I met over a year ago during a creative retreat lead by photographer Jessica  Lark.  After posting "The Sexy Benefits of Eating Dark Chocolate,"  on my personal facebook page, Remy started writing suggestions on how to apply the chocolate to your lover's body, what tools to use and what to do with the chocolate once on the skin. I was turned on, intrigued and captivated. I knew that she and I needed to talk. Therefore months later, when Jackie, the Owner of Bodybinds and I met to discuss the editorial focus of 2015, I immediately though of my friend, model and makeup artist Remy when we determined that January and February would be all about KINK. If anyone had great ideas and thoughts on KINK, I knew it was REMY. In our hour long video chat, we cover a great deal of information. I suggest getting comfortable. Go put on something sexy. Make a sensual cup of tea. Maybe grab your favorite chocolate. Light a yummy smelling candle and sit back and listen to our discussion. Below you will find a time marked guide to our topics and further down you will find our salacious video conversation. One of the main reasons Remy and I had this discussion is because we believe the more open, expressive, honest and transparent women are regarding all areas of their lives including sexuality and sensuality, the more freedom, joy and liberation they will experience.  A Bodybinds woman is bold, daring, powerful, confident, edgy and sexy, among many other attributes and by sharing our personal experiences, we hope to inspire some boldness in your lives too! Also, before you even ask, I'm wearing the Anna Reversible Harness top available on

How do you define KINK and FETISH? What are some of your kinks?  What prompts and ideas do you have for anyone wanting to explore kink? What would you like Remy and I to discuss next?


Remy Fontaine is a creative spirit that thrives though her projects in makeup artistry and creative design in mediums including costume and prop design. She spent her time in school learning about the science, psychology and art of human sexuality, and enjoys educating and enjoying it to the best of her ability! During the day, she works in marketing and the wrangling and management of a gaggle of specialized maintenance technicians. 

Sheena LaShay is a Wild Magical Woman, Boudoir Photographer, Writer, and most importantly a Pole Dancer. She writes for, Owning Pink, Verizon Wireless and is the Co-President & Editor-in-Chief of the #PDBloggers.

SPECIAL NOTE: For the months of January and February the editorial focus of the Bodybinds Blog will be ALL ABOUT KINK.While we may cover a few other topics here or there, you will notice a lot of features on the topic of KINK.  If you are interested in guest writing, being interviewed or featured, please email the editor at
 Creative Commons Photo Credit: Smplstc
February 27, 2020 — Jacqueline Lee