Modesty is overrated. Women spend far too much time apologizing for their bodies, explaining away genuine compliments, and not celebrating their gorgeous, sexy selves. I am a firm believer in being cocky. Of looking at your juicy booty, sensual smile or Bodicelli curves and luxuriating in their lush feminity. This doesn't mean ignoring what you want to change in yourself, but to own what makes you awesome and not explain it away as anything less than it is.  So next time you are standing in front of the mirror, look yourself straight in the eyes and say, "Damn, I'm sexy!"

Jillian is an avid pole dance student, accessories and costume designer, rhinestone aficionado, and a PDBloggers Executive Commitee Member. She also writes at

February 27, 2020 — David Morreale