How to Give and Receive An Authentic, Vulnerable and Sexy Lap Dance


Ooh La La

The first time I heard Ooh La La by Goldfrapp it pulled me out of my desk chair to dance because my hips couldn’t resist the pulsating beat. A week later I had a blissful experience with it in my pole dance class. I glowed. It felt like my body absorbed Alison Goldfrapp’s silky voice and the song’s beat and slowly released the vibrations from within all afternoon.

That evening I decided to give my husband, Brian, his first lap dance. Before I could chicken out I said, “I want to dance for you, ok?”

“Sure, yeah!” he nodded, “What do I have to do?”

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5 Erotic Classics for Valentine’s Day

"5 erotic classics"

The world may be in the grips of 50 Shades fever, but erotica has been changing the way people view sexuality for centuries. Erotica can help you delve into new aspects of your sexuality in a safe way, explore your fantasies, and is a sexy past time to share with your lover. To get you started on your erotic journey, check out our list of 5 erotic classics.

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13 Valentines Day Gift Ideas That May Blow His Mind

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Photography by Tiffany Bailey


When it comes to men, I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve. With Valentine’s looming around the corner and the premiere of 50 Shades of Grey approaching, which he more than likely won’t go to see with you, I have a few tips and real life anecdotes that work for seduction, pleasure and delight. I find joy in celebrating the men in my life and therefore, let’s gift them with the BEST.

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